Yesterday, Joseph Stack flew his plane into the IRS building in Austin, Texas. The scene was dreadful and frightening. As of this writing two people have died. A senseless action.
What influenced this man to carry out such a horrendous act? Is the IRS a powerful influence over a person’s decision to become violent? Or was the influence that existed taken in such a way that hopelessness was the only result.
What occurred inside this seemingly sane person that caused him to burn his home then do a kamikaze? The answer my friends is simple…
Emotions.
In my blog, How I Conquer the 3 Biggest Barriers to Influence, I revealed the 3 psychological emotions that stand in your way of having influence over yourself.
When we allow an outside force, person or organization to influence our good judgment we must take action as to WHO and WHAT influences our lives.
My heart hurts for his family and I send my most sincere condolences. As a professional, a licensed psychologist and one who has counseled many – I’d like to talk about influence and how it affects a woman’s life everyday.
The Danger of Hopelessness and Desperation
Hopelessness is having no expectation of success - believing there is no solution. It threatens our physical and psychological well being. It is an “end” emotion meaning there is no possible change.
Desperation is defined as ‘recklessness arising from despair.’ Desperation blinds us to a sense of self preservation – unable to think clearly about our behavior. In massive quantities, we become influenced by the deep wallows of despair and hopelessness.
These two emotions must be influenced by our own inner truth and value. As women especially WE must influence these two emotions when they arise. Trust me, they will arise… and the truth of how valuable you are and the reality of hope must be at the core of your existence.
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