When it comes to influence, women have it made – ONLY when we focus on what’s going on inside ourselves. For so long men have taught us that influence is something external from us. Something that we do to another person to get an automatic response – not always one you wanted.
But that couldn’t be further from the truth … especially for women. When it comes to influence, women understand it differently. We prefer being influential to influencing. Yes, there is a difference … an important difference.
Being influential is a higher order of influence.
But the problem women run into is they have not discovered or claimed their real capacity to be influential. We’re so busy. But we need to take time to look beyond what we see.
Influence is like a switch. You can turn it on and off when you desire.
Being influential can’t work on a switch. Either you are or you aren’t. And once you’re influential then you always will be. These are my 14 points of influence for the woman who is ready to look beyond.
Influence Point #1: Make yourself the priority
Influence Point #2: Let the voice in your heart talk to the voice in your head
Influence Point #3: Resist temptation – it isn’t always opportunity
Influence Point #4: Looking outside yourself is where you find the dream. Looking inside yourself creates an awakening.
Influence Point #5: Great influencers never quit – they just find another way.
Influence Point #6: You are capable, competent, creative, and caring. Prove it.
Influence Point #7: What you think and believe will affect the way you behave and perform.
Influence Point #8: Perfection is not the end result.
Influence Point #9: Let someone else do the influencing for you.
Influence Point #10: Become the master of observation and storage. Observe everything and store it for instant recall.
Influence Point #11: Find the purpose beyond yourself. You’ll reach the moon!
Influence Point #12: Risk and influence go hand in hand. Use both to measure the other.
Influence Point #13: Focus and concentration are the keys to Influence’s door.
Influence Point #14: The smarter you grow, the stronger your voice.
Step back. Stop what you’re doing. Breathe. Study these 14 Points of Influence. Make a list how each one of them serves you. Where are you needing more help? What questions do you have? How can you use each one of them? These are the questions millions of women are asking. Don’t stop until you get the answers.
P.S. Don’t miss the complementary webinar I am doing next week! There’s still time for you to register here: Influence Know How: 5 “Use-Now” Techniques to Ignite Your Influence on November 8 at 2 pm Eastern. After you have digested these 14 Points of influence and want more or find you need a little help, then don’t miss this webinar. I am here to serve you on your path to becoming an influential woman.
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